tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713892669937034612.post723083303685973621..comments2024-02-08T18:36:23.491-05:00Comments on Something Beautiful: Physical TouchJessicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05539589195254206189noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713892669937034612.post-33529479925517022082012-06-27T18:01:31.614-04:002012-06-27T18:01:31.614-04:00I always wrap my arms around my husband when he...I always wrap my arms around my husband when he's cooking and claim that I'm "helping." ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713892669937034612.post-68470279272980178762012-06-27T13:01:32.998-04:002012-06-27T13:01:32.998-04:00My primary love language is Physical affection. H...My primary love language is Physical affection. Hugs are always welcome. I especially like when my husband holds my hand, puts his arm around me, brushes the hair away from my face, kisses my forehead, neck, cheek or hand. My husband can say he loves me, but I feel loved by him more when I am "gathered to him". I prefer to be in the same room as him too. If I speak love to my husband in this same way, I have to remember moderation or he begins to feel smothered. I have to remember to speak to him with his love language, words of affirmation. I also have two teenage sons. The oldest is easy because his love language is also physical affection. I have to be more proactive with my younger son, though. His language is gifts. I have to remember to pick him up a pack of gum and put it on his keyboard. He feels loved when my husband takes him out for coffee. He never felt more loved than when we bought him a new bible last year and when I gave him a journal a few months ago. The dollar tree store is great for young kids, but when it comes to teens and adults you have to be more creative. But it's worth it.Christina L.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713892669937034612.post-57946206317312901392012-06-27T12:26:29.490-04:002012-06-27T12:26:29.490-04:00My love language is physical touch, and my husband...My love language is physical touch, and my husband's is quality time. As the wife who loves being touched, I will say--I really appreciate it when my husband touches me in NON-sexual ways! He makes a point of asking me what kind of touches are just loving, not necessarily sexual. We love cuddling together on the couch and just talking, which is a great way for BOTH of us to feel very loved. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15455011518336150451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713892669937034612.post-78700958738740652752012-06-27T10:13:28.436-04:002012-06-27T10:13:28.436-04:00To the anonymous commenter - it sounds like your b...To the anonymous commenter - it sounds like your boyfriend's love language is probably physical touch, and that's probably how he is showing you that he loves you. However, if it bothers you that he doesn't say it, I would confront him about it, and tell him you'd like to hear it. Of course, after 6 months, he might not be ready to say it yet if he never has before. I'd say, just keep the lines of communication open, and let him know what you're thinking or feeling about the whole thing :-)Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05539589195254206189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713892669937034612.post-76366605504752355212012-06-27T09:19:21.370-04:002012-06-27T09:19:21.370-04:00My boyfriend of 6 months never tells me he loves m...My boyfriend of 6 months never tells me he loves me but he is constantly kissing my forehead rubbing my hair hugging me, tickling me etc. My past relastionships would always say it but were never very affectionate. I try to tell myself that even though he hasn't technically said he loves me, he shows me in ways that they did not. What do you think?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713892669937034612.post-2071906041274277552012-06-27T08:32:04.834-04:002012-06-27T08:32:04.834-04:00My husband's love language is physical touch t...My husband's love language is physical touch too. I grew up in a home where affection was rarely shown, so this has always been a challenge for me. I'm thankful for his reminder, Jessica, because it is so easy to forget how each person has different needs and expressions. Great post!Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13156048755652103073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713892669937034612.post-90612856414523623912012-06-26T23:21:34.057-04:002012-06-26T23:21:34.057-04:00My husband's love language is physical touch a...My husband's love language is physical touch and words of affirmation. Although I feel like PT always leads to the bedroom. I'm trying to do practice his love language in other ways.Shondahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08419883061960519895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713892669937034612.post-26082586543674694552012-06-26T22:04:25.097-04:002012-06-26T22:04:25.097-04:00my husband and I have the same love languages as y...my husband and I have the same love languages as you guys! it is hard when you feel loved different ways because it's easiest to show love the way you best feel loved!Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06301602017219708922noreply@blogger.com